Don’t get too attached to what people say. The best strength you can have is not giving a shit. You are not determined by adjectives and you are not confined in words. Don’t take things personnally. Stay away from the people who don’t treat you well and have no regrets for leaving them. You will be more free if you don’t get too attached. Running after them is weakness. Take your pride and plant your seeds elsewhere where there is space for them to turn into flowers. Who knows maybe the grass is greaner next door?